On January 16, 1985, I sent an open letter to both Arachnorts of our Prelacy and Diocese churches. I was querying them as to why our Armenians in North America remain divided. I started my open letter with the following paragraph: "Whenever you ask a member of any Armenian organization why Armenians have so much trouble getting along with each other (namely churches, political groups, and the like), you get the same response, ‘It’s not us, it’s them.’" After another letter and a few phone calls, I, along with two companions got an audience with Archbishop Mesrop Ashjian, who was the Prelacy Prelate at that time and later with Patriarch Torkom Manoogian, who was also an Archbishop and the Diocesan Primate at that time. Needless to say, outside of some "perhaps" and "maybes" we got no directives from either of them other than, why don’t you leave well enough alone. Later, after making those interviews public, I was contacted by members of a former joint Church Unity Committee who, after years of negotiation, had finally agreed on a set of guidelines in 1982 which they had submitted to their respective National Representative Assemblies. As it turned out, their respective National Assemblies approved it along with the Catholicos of Cilicia and of the Mother See of Etchmiadzin. But as fate would have it, a politically oriented faction from the Detroit Diocese felt that Article II, Section II of those 1982 Guidelines needed revision and they took a trip to Etchmiadzin to convince Catholicos Vazken I to ask for further clarification. Before the matter could be formally resolved, the Prelacy, through the influence of their in-house politicals, interpreted Catholicos Vazken I’s need for clarification as a rejection and the Prelacy in turn followed up by withdrawing their original approval. As I stated, I was contacted by former members of this joint unity committee and after reviewing the monumental work this group had accomplished, we decided to give it another try. The Coalition for Church Unity came into existence in 1985. And throughout the years that followed, we put together many public forums to properly inform the public of our need for church unity. We even joined forces with a New England coalition who called themselves the Coalition for Armenian Unity. In fact, the former joint unity committee also started becoming active again. But while the Diocese end of the committee had full authority to make decisions, the Prelacy side had to submit all proposals to their higher authorities for final approval. As things turned out, we soon realized we were playing against a stacked deck. Meetings were called, meetings were canceled, or sometimes meetings were called and proper representation didn’t show up. And I’m sorry to say that most of the delays and stonewalling that manifested itself after the 1982 Guideline controversy, came from the Prelacy side. In a recent TARInt’l, I read how the ARF had been trying to raise one million dollars toward establishing an ANC office in Europe. It would seem that the Forum of Armenian Organizations were in the process of doing the same and that the ARF’s intent was to establish the ANC office before the forum established theirs. But this isn’t where the story ends. The Catholicos of the Great House of Cilicia, in an unprecedented mood of generosity, contributed $100,000 toward this project. Assuming that such a contribution was made, is there anything religious about having an ANC office in Europe? And if by some distorted reason there is a religious reason, did he also donate $100,000 to the Forum of Armenian Organizations? The answer is, No, to both of the above. However, I would like to point out that the $100,000 that the generous Catholicos from Cilicia donated toward the ANC office in Europe could have done more good had he donated it toward helping the destitute people in corruption ravaged Armenia. As for myself, I know that if I were still involved with the Prelacy and I became aware of such a donation, I would be wondering if I were supporting a religious ideology or a political one. But even now, after all is said and done, I still wonder: Is the dog wagging the tail or is the tail wagging the dog? Joseph Vosbikian